… to my wonderful wife for 25 years.

When we were dating, all my friends were jealous because she was movie-star beautiful. What they didn’t know was how incredible her figure was. We had been married for a couple of years when a friend of hers told her about a nude beach not far away in Miami. To my surprise, she wanted to go, and she loved the attention she received. She had been so shy and conservative in her dressing that I don’t think she realized just how attractive she was in all ways.

That was about 25 years ago. Soon after the nude beach, we moved to a home with a pool and she insisted we surround the pool with a 6-foot fence. She stayed nude at our pool regardless of who visited, except if it were our parents or if anyone brought their children. Then this carried over to indoors. She just stopped wearing clothes unless she was going out. Our social friends sort of got used to it, as did the mailman, FedEx guy and even our favorite pizza delivery folks. She would just throw open the front door and welcome them.

Never have I thought she has been unfaithful; she just enjoys the freedom of nudity. Annie, she is now in her mid-40s. While I still think she is lovely, and I love her more than ever, her figure has not aged well. She hasn’t changed her lifestyle much (she dresses when our kids have friends over), and I want to suggest that not everyone enjoys seeing her naked at her age. I just don’t have the nerve to tell her.

– Seen It All

Dear Seen it All:

Your wife was never doing this for anyone’s enjoyment but her own. And if you didn’t take issue with the nudity when she was 20, then I think it’s shallow of you to take issue with it now. Still, I think your wife needs to be more conscientious. Answering the door in the buff could constitute indecent exposure; at the very least, it could make someone uncomfortable. Encourage her instead to get back into visiting nudist clubs and retreats, where she can be with consenting adults who share the same interest.